Is this enough to prove we are married (USA)?

My husband and I have been married for two years now. We have to remove the restrictions on his green card. We hired an attorney and got as many papers as we could think of to prove we are married. We have car insurance card, dental insurance card, lease to our house and apartment in the last two years. Papers on our dog, papers on our gym membership.Bank statements pictures of us and our families together. She said it wasn't enough! I am really confused has anyone else gone through this process? My husband says everyone he has talked to said it isn't so difficult. I mean come one we really are married how hard is it to prove that. Its ridiculous. Does anyone have any ideas for me on other stuff to include. Bills are in my name cause I never changed them over .. sucks i would have if i had known we were going to have such a problem. Please help thanks...
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Unless you have some unusual aspect to your immigration process, I think your attorney is full of beans. I came to the US in 1999, and got my 2 year GC in 2001 (it was a busy part of the country for immigration!). I showed, as proof of legitimate marriage: a lease, 2 photos of us together (it actually stunned me how few photos like that we had), car insurance and some bills. That was it. I provided even less in 2004 when I finally got my 10 year GC. We didn't use an attorney either, mainly because he wanted to charge the earth and said we wouldn't be approved either! I think you have plenty of evidence. If I were to suggest anything else, get some notarized statements from people you know you have been together and that you have a real marriage.
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Bf’s immaturity: Cultural difference or a real problem?

My bf's 30, American, an associate attorney. I am Chinese, 29, entry level consultant. We've been dating for 3 years and we are really close. He's been living with him Mom. He told me that he is thinking about spend the rest of his life with me. We just signed an apartment lease for a yr and are moving in together next week. But things he's been doing just keep telling me he is immature. His income after tax is 40K per year, but he spent 10K last year on his teeth procedures, didn't bother to look for a dental insurance plan. I asked him to get a dental plan. It's been two weeks and he hasn't done it yet. He always says "I will do research tomorrow." I don't want to see him spending another 5K on a cavity--he could use that money to buy me a ring. He's been looking for his dream job for 3 years, which requires a career change. He's only got 2 interviews, and is still looking. I told him that he is being unrealistic. If he really wants to change career, he should go back to school and recharge himself with a degree required by his dream job. He told me "I will shine." He is always keeping an eye on TV when he works on his resume, and always waits till the last day to submit job application. I thought because he's been living with his mom so he had no pressure of supporting himself and a family, that's why he didn't have the urgency to look for jobs or manage his finance more responsibly. But now we just signed a lease, he has little money in checking account, and 9K credit card debt. We calculated his income and debt and realize if he doesn't want to pay high interest, there are only 8 months left for him to pay off this debt. Even though currently I am making half of what he's making, I have no debt, and have a few thousand $$ in checking. So I just gave him $2K in cash to lower his credit card debt, and I gave landlord $3K for rent security deposit and first month rent. He said he will pay me back later and pay his share of rent after the first month. May be I am too naïve- I thought with a monthly big payment of rent coming, he will have some pressure and treat his life seriously. I am wrong, because he just told me today is the deadline of a job application so he needs to work on his resume tonight- he spent last night watching football game on TV with his friends. I can't believe this. Some ppl asked: if your bf has so many problems, why are you still with him? Well, he is nonsmoker, nonalcoholic, sweet and cute, doesn't go to bars, no complicated relationship history, generous to his friends and family, homeboy, supporting Obama… Maybe these are common among guys, but I've been dating him only for the last three 3 yrs, and one before him. I don't know if most guys have the same good traits. So, is this a culture difference? Some Americans told me: "You guys are not married yet. That's his life, his money, none of your business. " But to me, if two people are thinking about spending rest of their lives together, aren't they supposed to be thinking about the near future seriously and financially?
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Cultural? Might be, but it sounds like you have your sh*t together, and he doesn't. I think you know what will happen if he doesn't get it together, so why not tell him your concerns. Your commitment is a strong one, so I'm sure that he will be inclined to reach his goals, and you both need to understand what it is that you want your future to hold. You've obviously been supportive, and spent your money in ways that show your dedication, is he recognising this? I hope that he knows how great you are, he may need to be reminded of a few things. Talk to him, tell him what you expect from him. I hope everything works out for you dear. Good luck, Jen
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Can't afford braces for 3 kids?

So, our family is huge and we have like 10 people. parents, 4 kids, grandma, 2 random homestay students (living in what should be the kids rooms) and basically the occasional friend that comes over. my teeth I think look fine and I like my smile they are pretty much straight except for one tooth, the dentist said i have a little crowding but whatever. and my sister needs them, the dentist said she has to see our ortho and get them soon because she really needs them, my other sister is too young for them for now. so all 3 of us need braces and our ortho said about $6,000 PER kid. and I'm getting a job, but still we just can't afford it... and I don't know what to do? i looked up invisalign too and it apparently costs more. AND apparently our dental insurance here, or most insurances wouldn't cover braces at all. btw, we live in vancouver, canada.
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Well, I suggest, since you're teeth aren't that bad, let you're sister who really needs them get braces. Then when you're other sister goes to the ortho, see how bad her teeth are. Then once you're an adult and you can afford it by yourself (hopefully), get braces or invisalign. hope i helped:)
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Should I Take a Risk and Attend UCLA or Settle for UCSD?

I got into both UCSD and UCLA and I'd rather attend UCLA, but there are several obstacles to overcome: 1.) I cannot know for a fact that I will not be able to count on my family for any financial support. 2.) I've never lived by myself, I don't have a drivers permit, health insurance, dental insurance, I don't know my way around LA. I know nothing about independent living. 3.) I have to take out $4,000 more in student loans. 4.) I do Not want want to live in a dormwith a bunch of drinking, partying, loud music. This is for undergrad by the way and I do want to go to law school. Is UCLA worth the risk?
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You are better off at UCSD and will have at least as good a chance of getting into a good law school for the reasons you stated and because the easier competition at UCSD will help you earn higher grades.
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What is the estimated cost for a crown on a peg lateral tooth?

I have a very small peg lateral incisor and the incisor on the other side of my front teeth is smaller than it should be (though it looks better than the peg lateral). I think I can afford to get one crown for the peg lateral, but I'm wondering what it would cost. Also, do any dentists do payment plans? I'd have a hard time coming up with $3000 out of pocket. Also, if my peg lateral is causing me pain and grinding down to nothing because of TMJ, how likely is it that my Delta Dental insurance will cover 50%? (my insurance indicates 50% coverage for crowns but I'm not sure if they would cover it if they determined it was for cosmetic purposes). Thanks for any info!
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1500 dollars
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Army Reserve Pay questions?

I'm curious as what I should be expected to be getting paid as a Reserves Member & how being a single mother who can never go active duty will effect it. Also I'm trying to go for Paralegal Specialist I talked to a Recruiter but he wasn't very helpful & I find it better talking to people who have experienced it. Whats training pay? Monthly Pay? Pay during annual training? Does being a single mother effect bonuses? Do they help with college? How Much? benefits life health and dental insurance & life insurance? Also is there any Jobs that have better pay/ benefits?
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"....I'm curious as what I should be expected to be getting paid as a Reserves Member & how being a single mother who can never go active duty will effect it...." WOAH, STOP THERE! Every Soldier can and will be Activated when called upon. If you do not want to be called to Active Duty, DO NOT JOIN THE MILITARY, because they WILL call you to Active Duty status, possibly for 12 months or longer away from your child. To answer your question: Active Duty and Reserve get paid the same. However, during drill you will be "active" for only two days you will get paid for two days only. (Do the math!) Pay during annual training, you will get paid for what time you put in. You do not get special bonuses for being a single mother but you will get dependant pay for the time you are on active duty (this will not amount for much when you are drilling status). The GOOD thing is that depending on the availibility, you may be able to get the GI Bill in your contract. Also, Reservists can apply for Tuition Assistance (TA) at Goarmyed.com. You can also buy TriCare dental and medical insurance (I believe for your dependant as well). To answer you last question, all jobs in the military pay the same, but some require less promotion points to get promoted do to being in higher demand to fill positions which can boost your pay. Also, some jobs (MOS) come with bonuses. ONCE AGAIN, ALL SOLDIERS ARE ELIGIBLE TO DEPLOY. It's in the Soldier's Creed "I stand ready to deploy, engage, and destroy the enemies of the United States of America in close combat."
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any input is greatly appreciated :/?

sore throat, fevery, i normally just feel hot and clammy almost nervous feeling. neck has tiny lumps on it 1 week ago I went to docs and strep and mono test came back negative. was taking Z-pack, wasn't really working. went back to doctor yesterday.. doctor prescribed antibiotics & clariten; DR. says I have throat infection, nasal dripping in throat. and as for the lumps says its not lymphnodes just says it might be reaction to my illness. I've been very paranoid bc I recently found out that my EX who I last slept with 3 weeks ago cheated on me and selpt with A LOT of ppl. I had blood work done again.. HIV and CBC test results all came back normal. HIV can be detected that early, correct even tho I slept with him 3 weeks ago? the lumpyness in my neck is not really painful just tender and like i can feel it when I laugh or cough.. also, I do have a dental issue. I won't have dental insurance until january- i have a hole in my tooth where im not sure if its decaying or if a prior root canal filling fell out. I clean it out, gargle salt water it hurts sometimes and that side of my face is sort of tender and thats the side the lumps are.. im SO paranoid. am I going to be okay? is this causing my throat and neck problems? im making myself sick researching things online, I'm paranoid and worried. I can't stress how oh so paranoid. should I be really concerned? I do have slight anxiety. I've been off my medication for 4months now & am trying to recover on my own...
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sounds like swine flu? bc of ur throat ur fever and clamminess .
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