What happens after you get married as a minor?

please do not tell me i'm stupid, you don't know my life. me and my boyfriend are getting married and i'm wondering if we'll have to purchase our own health and dental insurance right away, or if our parents can still take care of that for a few years. second, i am wondering if we get married without his parents knowing (because they don't like me that much and don't want us to be together at all). i'm wondering if they could continue paying for insurance and stuff like that without knowing he is married if we don't plan on living together for a few years. yes, why get married if you're not going to live together. we want to be married for an amount of time before he enters the military. the longer you're married i guess the easier it is to get benefits or something like that.
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once you get married you are an emancipated adult. It may depend on the insurance company your parents have but 99.9 of them will refuse to cover you. To get married a minor must have their parent's signed consent so he will not be able to unless he lies about his age and that's risking getting into legal trouble which he DOESN'T want while walking into the military. Once married you will be covered by his military benefits.
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